Ask for a Reference Message Generator
Need to ask someone to vouch for you? This free tool writes a polite reference request — to be a referee, write a reference, give a LinkedIn recommendation, or confirm they're happy to be contacted. Add their name and copy. Nothing you type is stored.
Example reference requests
Here's the kind of wording this tool produces. Yours will use the details you enter.
Subject: A quick favour
Dear Jess,
I hope you're well. I'm applying for new roles and wondered whether you'd be comfortable acting as a referee for me. I really valued working with you and would appreciate it. No worries at all if not.
Kind regards,
Sam
Hi Jess, I'm applying for new roles and wondered whether you might be able to write a short reference for me. Happy to share details or a draft to make it easy. Thanks, Sam
Frequently asked questions
How do I politely ask someone to be a reference?
Ask directly but give them an easy out, remind them of your work together, and offer to share the role details. Always ask before listing someone as a referee.
Who should I ask for a reference?
A former manager or a colleague who knows your work well is ideal. Choose someone who can speak positively and specifically about what you do.
What details should I share?
Share only what you're comfortable with. When confirming a referee, ask them which contact details they'd prefer you to pass on.
Does this tool store anything?
No. Your details are only used to build the message on this page, and nothing is saved.